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User Topic: 6 Years Out
Sad in AZ
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Wink  Posted: 3:23 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup; it's d-day antiversary time and life is pretty good Not where I want to be but not too shabby either. I've made lots of good friends because of this debacle--I call that a win. Newbies will hopefully come to understand the power of SI.

Thank you, SI, and thank you friends.


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20566 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
gma56
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You survived the storm, that my friend is huge !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13881 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2821 | Registered: Jan 2010
stronggirl72
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. I really needed to read this tonight. I'm a bit less than two years out, and am looking for the day when the pain is behind me and I can say that life is good. Until then, I'll settle for 'getting by.'

I am so happy for you!!


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 155 | Registered: Oct 2012
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15449 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You rock


BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
HappilyUnMarried
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Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.† Donít make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy

Posts: 1297 | Registered: Oct 2008
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay Saz!


BS, now age 54, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5960 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 12:00 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you, SAZZY!


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8240 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right behind you.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17811 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
persevere
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Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome post SAZ! I'm at 2 1/2 years from DDay (yesterday) and doing way better than I was progressively, and the SI folks are a constant inspiration.

Thank you for that lady!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4715 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
luv2swim
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Default  Posted: 1:50 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SWEET!
So glad to hear that you have joined the winners circle!


Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married 2011

Posts: 361 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US
Heartless Bytchh
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Default  Posted: 4:51 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh you are definitely a winner. A top notch blue ribbon winner.
(((SAZZY)))


Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit

Posts: 6063 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Another day in Paradise
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15552 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love reading these posts


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
wonderingbull
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Member # 14833
Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 6004 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Sazzy" ... I kinda like that


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21575 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Isn't that the name of Sheldon's cat? ^^^


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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