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Topic: 6 Years Out
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Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 |  Posted: 3:23 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
Yup; it's d-day antiversary time and life is pretty good  Not where I want to be but not too shabby either. I've made lots of good friends because of this debacle--I call that a win. Newbies will hopefully come to understand the power of SI.
Thank you, SI, and thank you friends. 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25263 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 |  Posted: 3:26 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You survived the storm, that my friend is huge !
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20488 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 3:27 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
A wise woman once said "fuck this shit" and she lived happily ever after.
If you want them to quit stabbing you in the back, then you need to quit handing them the knife.
Posts: 16818 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148 | | Posted: 5:13 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Posts: 4500 | Registered: Jan 2010 |
stronggirl72
♀ 37293
Member # 37293 | | Posted: 7:09 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Thank you. I really needed to read this tonight. I'm a bit less than two years out, and am looking for the day when the pain is behind me and I can say that life is good. Until then, I'll settle for 'getting by.'
I am so happy for you!!
"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."
DIVORCED!!
Posts: 190 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552 | | Posted: 10:49 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15977 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl |
OnceInALifetime
♂ 26023
Member # 26023 | | Posted: 10:54 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You rock 
BH, now divorced
Posts: 3529 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: New England |
HappilyUnMarried
♀ 21299
Member # 21299 | | Posted: 11:08 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
True happiness comes from within, not from someone else. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy
Posts: 1300 | Registered: Oct 2008 |
InnerLight
♀ 19946
Member # 19946 | | Posted: 11:39 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Yay Saz!
BS, 56 years
D-day 6-2-08
D after 20 years
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
Posts: 6650 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 11:59 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Me: 44
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25687 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
WhiteWolfWinning
♀ 12475
Member # 12475 | | Posted: 12:00 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Good for you, SAZZY!
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
Posts: 8256 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 12:01 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Right behind you.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 20570 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468 | | Posted: 12:42 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Awesome post SAZ! I'm at 2 1/2 years from DDay (yesterday) and doing way better than I was progressively, and the SI folks are a constant inspiration.
Thank you for that lady!
Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
Posts: 5278 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
luv2swim
♀ 13154
Member # 13154 | | Posted: 1:50 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
SWEET!
So glad to hear that you have joined the winners circle!
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married 24 years -
2 fantastic kids!
divorced 2009
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married and still together (as far as I know).
Posts: 402 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US |
Heartless Bytchh
♀ 12347
Member # 12347 | | Posted: 4:51 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Oh you are definitely a winner. A top notch blue ribbon winner.
(((SAZZY)))
Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit
Posts: 6066 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Another day in Paradise |
NaiveAgain
♀ 20849
Member # 20849 | | Posted: 5:36 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.
Posts: 16236 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio |
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882 | | Posted: 10:55 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
I love reading these posts
Me - BW
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
Posts: 3937 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA |
wonderingbull
♂ 14833
Member # 14833 | | Posted: 11:45 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
Posts: 6054 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place |
TrulyReconciled
♂ 3031
Member # 3031 | | Posted: 2:10 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
"Sazzy" ... I kinda like that 
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
Posts: 22740 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o) |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 8:18 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Isn't that the name of Sheldon's cat? ^^^
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 20570 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
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