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liarswife29 posted 6/12/2013 18:56 PM

I want to thank everyone who has responded to my posts. I feel like I have been going crazy for weeks. I appreciate the kind words and the truth Thank you so much

Pippy posted 6/12/2013 19:24 PM

I have put up with a lot in this marriage and he knows I will not tolerate this and he's afraid of what I'm going to do. He should be. I am not going to tell him everything and for the time being I will let him think things are ok while I make my plans.

I read your posts and I think you are doing well. We don't know our inner strength until something like this brings it out.

I don't know where you live but in some places Spousal Support is paid for an indefinite time when someone has been M over 25 years. I was M 30 and I made copies of EVERYTHING in our filing cabinet before he thought to remove it. I'm presuming he made good money for working in the DR. Document it.

Now is the time to be strong and protect yourself. You can grieve later. Hire a shark. You deserve it.

sammie posted 6/14/2013 00:20 AM

Lots and lots of hugs LW29. You are doing great considering the big, dirty shit sandwich that has been handed to you.