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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 2:27 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

I spoke to my mom and she is able to start physical therapy. Because she can't drive to a physical therapy place a home nurse will be coming to her place and medicare will cover it 100%. I'm so happy that she'll be able to get the help she needs. I already told to keep up with whatever exercises she's been told to do and she agreed.

There's still no update about the whole reverse mortgage thing. She said she'll talk to the person but she's not signing anything.

I still haven't talked to my sister since she caused that issue when I couldn't drop what I was doing to help out.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 4:16 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

Awesome news!

Can you be with her when the mortgage guy talks to her? High pressure and your sister , could they be too much for your mom?

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
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Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:27 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

That's really good news

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 5:34 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

I am so glad that your mom can get the home therapy she needs!

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 7:02 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

Karma, that's a good idea. I'll run it by mom tomorrow.

Thank you everyone. It is a relief.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:10 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

It's great news about the therapy and I agree that someone (ie you if possible) should be with her when the reverse mortgage asshole talks to her. It sounds like she might have a hard time refusing, it would be good for someone to be there to help her to resist.

If not, can you teach her to say 'Please leave the documents, I need to have my lawyer go over them.' (They don't need to know that she doesn't have a lawyer.......)

((((sd))))

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3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 10:33 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

I'm SO glad to hear that. You're doing a good job of supporting her, sd.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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 simplydevastated (original poster member #25001) posted at 3:08 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Good point, DMW. I'll let her know that when I talk to her tomorrow.

Thanks Jrazz

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 8:05 AM, June 14th (Friday)]

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Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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