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Topic: Second Choice

libertyrocks
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Posted: 10:18 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013

If he thought we were "doomed" and I would leave him anyway, then that totally makes me second choice.

The only reason none of his relationships didn't last is because all the OW were sluts and sleeping around with other men. IMO, his favorite LTA, was sleeeping around. So, since none of those girls were loyal to him, does he think, OH, MY WIFE WILL BE LOYAL, I better go back to her? I'm on a roll today...

Thanks for listening.

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)

confused615
♀ 30826
Member # 30826

Posted: 10:46 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013

You have said that before..that he felt the two of you were "doomed."

What were those feelings based on? Did he attempt to work on the marriage before deciding it was doomed? Did he tell you before dday#1 that he felt that way?

BS(me)42
FWH 46
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled. Love my "new" husband!

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.

Posts: 8371 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana

libertyrocks
♀ 38924
Member # 38924

Posted: 10:54 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013

Absolutely not. I asked him when he thougth we were doing bad, he said right after we got married. That's when I was asking him to go to counseling with me. I did. He didn't. I didn't cheat, I'm not broken. He is.

Are you kidding me? I had to bust him. Never, did he come to me sorry, saying he did something wrong... :(

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)

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