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libertyrocks posted 6/13/2013 10:18 AM

If he thought we were "doomed" and I would leave him anyway, then that totally makes me second choice.

The only reason none of his relationships didn't last is because all the OW were sluts and sleeping around with other men. IMO, his favorite LTA, was sleeeping around. So, since none of those girls were loyal to him, does he think, OH, MY WIFE WILL BE LOYAL, I better go back to her? I'm on a roll today...

Thanks for listening.

confused615 posted 6/13/2013 10:46 AM

You have said that before..that he felt the two of you were "doomed."

What were those feelings based on? Did he attempt to work on the marriage before deciding it was doomed? Did he tell you before dday#1 that he felt that way?

libertyrocks posted 6/13/2013 10:54 AM

Absolutely not. I asked him when he thougth we were doing bad, he said right after we got married. That's when I was asking him to go to counseling with me. I did. He didn't. I didn't cheat, I'm not broken. He is.

Are you kidding me? I had to bust him. Never, did he come to me sorry, saying he did something wrong... :(