I met a guy while out of town about 2 months ago. He lives 4 hours away.
Everything started out great we would talk/text every day. Then decided to meet up again. I spent a couple of days with him and everything was awesome.
Its been 2 months since we met and the talk/text is still constant not every day but we keep in contact at least every other day. We have been trying to meet up again but things just havent gone our way.
He is not the type of guy to say or text sweet things but he has. Maybe only twice, so I kinda called him out on it.
We were texting and I felt comfortable enough to tell him something.
The text went something like this:
" I would love it if you "spoiled" me a little more. I love when you say all those nice sweet things. It would be so nice to hear it more often"
That was 2 days ago and he has never replied back.
Did I mess it up?
Should I have not said anything at all?
“Was it hard?" I ask.
Not as hard as holding on to something that wasn't real.”
― Lisa Schroeder