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User Topic: what is up with OW? and why do I care?
MartlArts
♀ 36130
Member # 36130
Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So it's been 3+ yrs since dday, and quite awhile since I felt the need to obsessively cyberstalk wannabe OW. I was at the point where I'd figured out that her life was empty, lonely and boring. (Which probably explains why she sought out an ex bf from decades ago for a long distance OEA. I think it seemed like a safe way to add some spice.)

Had the dday antiversary a few weeks ago, since she came to mind on that date I idly looked her up. She had changed her status from M to D! Now this piqued my interest so I began searching any and all info. A member here even helped search legal records. No confirmation to indicate the status change is true. I could envision her lying to make herself appear available, but her grown children would surely notice and question the status change.

Well, I guess she almost got her wish. She couldn't hold my H's interest (he stopped communicating months before I found out), but she's succeeded in getting some of my attention anyway.

What's up, Wannabe? Are you lonesome tonight?


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1003 | Registered: Jul 2012
fourever
♀ 30631
Member # 30631
Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

[
bold]What's up, Wannabe? Are you lonesome tonight? [/bold]

Oh, I hope so! Yours and mine!


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 907 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
MartlArts
♀ 36130
Member # 36130
Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fourever - as OW sows, so shall OW reap!


excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

Posts: 1003 | Registered: Jul 2012
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