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stillsad1970 posted 6/13/2013 20:07 PM

Ok,cant hide it anymore haven't found a post for this yet. Do any WS now, finally , just want to go have sex with someone you want to fuck now! Other than WS ?

gma56 posted 6/13/2013 20:54 PM

If it's an exit ons/fwb, not usually a good idea. Most BS have enough drama without having more to deal with. It won't make you feel better more than a few hours.
I did have exit A after separating from my 1st XH but I was young and dumb back then. The relationship lasted until my D was final then I moved on.

idkam posted 6/14/2013 09:54 AM

Still i had to Lol at ur post.... Shoot me and my ex were together for 10 yrs i couldnt wait to try 'something New'..... It was delicianos ...
All 6'2 220#'s of it.....

Mmmm Hmmm!

TattoodChinaDoll posted 6/14/2013 10:32 AM

Stillsad, I'm a little confused. Did you mean to say do any BS want to have sex with someone other than their WS?

As someone who is headed to divorce and my new beginning so far is just realizing that I can have way better than how I've been treated, at this point I think about it but not crave it. I'm not sexually crazed at this point...ask me again when I've been on the bus longer. I might have a wayyyyy different answer!

[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 10:46 AM, June 14th (Friday)]

veelop5 posted 6/14/2013 12:47 PM

Hell yes!!!!

Spitfire77 posted 6/14/2013 21:36 PM

Yup! So far I've managed to resist temptation because I know I'm not ready, but it's tough sometimes.

SBB posted 6/15/2013 03:07 AM

Yes.... pretty much anyone but the WS.

idkam, We use the metric system in Australia but I have recently had cause to add 6'6" to my vocabulary....

They were 2 different measurements in my old life... and the second number was lower!

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 3:08 AM, June 15th (Saturday)]

Helen of Troy posted 6/15/2013 14:33 PM

Invest in a quality B.O.B.
Always disease free, no pregnancy risk, nor emotional messes!

sparklingwater posted 6/16/2013 07:43 AM

Yes! My relationship came to an abrupt end. My x had a low libido (for IRL sex), preferring his internet fantasies over the real thing, so quite frankly I was craving a good roll in the hay.

Amazonia posted 6/16/2013 08:17 AM

Invest in a quality B.O.B.

I'd like to take this moment to endorse the brand Lelo, keeping Ama on the right side of sanity since 2011.

She11ybeanz posted 6/16/2013 08:30 AM

Invest in a quality B.O.B.
Always disease free, no pregnancy risk, nor emotional messes!

This is my secret... or better yet.....invest in 3 or 4... (I like variety!)

Its definitely a bus-saver! Been on the bus over a year now.....and going strong....and going and going and going

fraeuken posted 6/16/2013 12:06 PM

Oh boy, yes, I was so neglected as a woman during the time leading up to separation. Did not give into the temptation though and had some great bonding experiences with my personal variety of 'bus-savers'.

Got off the bus just recently with a wonderful guy and can't get enough at this point. Got some years to make up.. he does not seem to mind

idkam posted 6/17/2013 16:04 PM

Strong

Mmmm hmmm!

stillsad1970 posted 6/17/2013 16:34 PM

Awesome replys. Sorry BS looking for "it" not WS. Thank you for the laughs,nice to do that today,calls and texts from ex. Awwwwww, new gf not that great? Sorry but its about me and my boy now.