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stillsad1970 (original poster member #38977) posted at 2:07 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
Ok,cant hide it anymore haven't found a post for this yet. Do any WS now, finally , just want to go have sex with someone you want to fuck now! Other than WS ?
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 2:54 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
If it's an exit ons/fwb, not usually a good idea. Most BS have enough drama without having more to deal with. It won't make you feel better more than a few hours.
I did have exit A after separating from my 1st XH but I was young and dumb back then. 
The relationship lasted until my D was final then I moved on.
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
idkam ( member #18375) posted at 3:54 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
Still i had to Lol at ur post.... Shoot me and my ex were together for 10 yrs i couldnt wait to try 'something New'..... It was delicianos 
...
All 6'2 220#'s of it.....
Mmmm Hmmm!
2015 It's time to get Fit, Fine, and more Fabulous. Come and join me.
TattoodChinaDoll ( member #34602) posted at 4:32 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
Stillsad, I'm a little confused. Did you mean to say do any BS want to have sex with someone other than their WS?
As someone who is headed to divorce and my new beginning so far is just realizing that I can have way better than how I've been treated, at this point I think about it but not crave it. I'm not sexually crazed at this point...ask me again when I've been on the bus longer. I might have a wayyyyy different answer! 
[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 10:46 AM, June 14th (Friday)]
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
veelop5 ( member #11089) posted at 6:47 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
ME-40
XH-DOESN'T MATTER ANYMORE
3 beautiful boys (21,20 & 17)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
10/27/2014-Met a wonderful man 9months ago
Divorce final 3/27/2013
Spitfire77 ( member #24486) posted at 3:36 AM on Saturday, June 15th, 2013
Yup! So far I've managed to resist temptation because I know I'm not ready, but it's tough sometimes.
BW (Me): 32
WH (Him): 32
Married: Dec. 04
Two kids, 6 & 4
Divorce will be final 26 SEP 13
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 9:07 AM on Saturday, June 15th, 2013
Yes.... pretty much anyone but the WS.
idkam, We use the metric system in Australia but I have recently had cause to add 6'6" to my vocabulary....
They were 2 different measurements in my old life... and the second number was lower!
[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 3:08 AM, June 15th (Saturday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Helen of Troy ( member #26419) posted at 8:33 PM on Saturday, June 15th, 2013
Invest in a quality B.O.B.
Always disease free, no pregnancy risk, nor emotional messes!
sparklingwater ( member #38792) posted at 1:43 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
Yes! My relationship came to an abrupt end. My x had a low libido (for IRL sex), preferring his internet fantasies over the real thing, so quite frankly I was craving a good roll in the hay.
Newly single and trying to find my feet.
There's always light at the end of the tunnel, just pray it's not a train.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:17 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
Invest in a quality B.O.B.
I'd like to take this moment to endorse the brand Lelo, keeping Ama on the right side of sanity since 2011.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 2:30 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
Invest in a quality B.O.B.
Always disease free, no pregnancy risk, nor emotional messes!
This is my secret... or better yet.....invest in 3 or 4... (I like variety!)
Its definitely a bus-saver! Been on the bus over a year now.....and going strong....and going and going and going
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 6:06 PM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
Oh boy, yes, I was so neglected as a woman during the time leading up to separation. Did not give into the temptation though and had some great bonding experiences with my personal variety of 'bus-savers'.
Got off the bus just recently with a wonderful guy and can't get enough at this point. Got some years to make up.. he does not seem to mind
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
idkam ( member #18375) posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013
2015 It's time to get Fit, Fine, and more Fabulous. Come and join me.
stillsad1970 (original poster member #38977) posted at 10:34 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013
Awesome replys. Sorry BS looking for "it" not WS. Thank you for the laughs,nice to do that today,calls and texts from ex. Awwwwww, new gf not that great? Sorry but its about me and my boy now. 
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