How do you all handle meetings at school? DS1 had an EP meeting (for gifted) at school. I was invited and participated. I did not tell EX about meeting as I have not desire to sit across a table from him and play friendly divorced parents. There would be no way I could concentrate on the issue at hand anyway.
So assface finds out about meeting and texts me that he wants to know about all meetings in the future blaahh, blaah, blaaah.
The response I wanted to send was: "It is not my responsibility to inform you of meetings, it is the school's responsibility. Call them if you would like to discuss this." Or "You have every right to call the school and schedule a meeting for yourself to discuss DS's EP."
Instead I blew it off and told him there wasn't a meeting. (There actually wasn't one. I talked with the teacher over the phone and via email but we never actually met for this.)
Just to clarify, I was not trying to keep him from meeting with DS's teachers. He has every right to meet with his teachers and discuss anything he wants to. But there is no way in hell we are meeting together. Not.happening.Ever.
I think the school did not invite him because the whole school knows that his OW is a teacher there and they know that we have a contemptuous relationship. Next year the kids are going to be attending a new school. I'm wondering how to handle this with XH and with the school for the future. I have a lot of years left with this a-hole.