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has anyone ever made up something just to mess with ws mind?

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 Ostrich80 (original poster member #34827) posted at 3:39 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

I'm just curious. I keep playing something in my head that kind of goes like this. We don't talk about ow or the A anymore. I know he's still in daily contact with her. Ws and I know a lot of the same people as ow.

So I was thinking about nonchalantly mentioning that a woman we both know commenting to me about the guy ow was with. I want to see his reaction. Ok I know its stupid and immature. Has anyone else done anything similar and did it come back to bite you in the ass?

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:46 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Sheepishly raising my hand. I had inside information about the OW and I told the X that I learned it from one of her friends that wasn't really a friend. It got me no where. It's a dead end street, and you're better to not go there.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 4:01 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

In my case, MOW admitted to being with other guys. And MOW caught my STBX cheating on her with a 21-year-old twink.

Of course they are still together. Fidelity doesn't seem to be a dealbreaker for them.. I almost think it makes it more exciting for them since they love the drama..

xBW~ 40
Two DS~ 15 and 11

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 Ostrich80 (original poster member #34827) posted at 4:32 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Yea you guys are probably right. Hell, he might wanna join in or watch.

I have seen where he searches for her on dating websites, so I'm assuming he doesn't trust her. Guess I just wanted to torment him a bit. I'm just in that kind of mood today. Prob feel differently tomorrow.

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 10:35 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

posts: 5738   ·   registered: Feb. 15th, 2012   ·   location: midwest
id 6373593
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