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Lovedyoumore posted 6/13/2013 22:38 PM

Would you tell the wife of the "new" guy that OW is currently sniffing around that she is a whore looking for her forever love ticket? Or, be thankful the bitch has moved on to a new victim and be quiet?

Conflicted1 posted 6/13/2013 22:42 PM

If I personally knew the wife I would. Probably not if she was a total stranger though. You'd almost have to be willing to disclose your history for her to trust your motive.

Jospehine85 posted 6/13/2013 23:04 PM

Send the wife of the "new" guy an email stating OW's history of sleeping with married men and that a woman who has no respect for the institution of marriage is probably not a good friend of her marriage.

Only say what you know for a fact. I believe in warning. If someone had warned me...life would be different.

[This message edited by Jospehine85 at 11:05 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]

Ostrich80 posted 6/13/2013 23:53 PM

Do it!!!

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 11:55 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]

Nature_Girl posted 6/13/2013 23:57 PM

Tell.

Lovedyoumore posted 6/14/2013 09:03 AM

I think an early warning would have changed both my actions and my FWH actions. If we had both been told who the OW was and what she had previously done, I think there is a good chance our history would be different. Who would not think twice if you were told she is a money, status, husband grabbing whore?

But, if she has new blood, the vampire goes away and leaves us alone. Blowing her cover brings us back into the crosshairs of her attention that we have spent 2 years trying to keep NC to get away from her. Ugh.