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 Lovedyoumore (original poster member #35593) posted at 4:38 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Would you tell the wife of the "new" guy that OW is currently sniffing around that she is a whore looking for her forever love ticket? Or, be thankful the bitch has moved on to a new victim and be quiet?

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

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Conflicted1 ( member #39019) posted at 4:42 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

If I personally knew the wife I would. Probably not if she was a total stranger though. You'd almost have to be willing to disclose your history for her to trust your motive.

Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don't expect it from cheap people.

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Jospehine85 ( member #35971) posted at 5:04 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Send the wife of the "new" guy an email stating OW's history of sleeping with married men and that a woman who has no respect for the institution of marriage is probably not a good friend of her marriage.

Only say what you know for a fact. I believe in warning. If someone had warned me...life would be different.

[This message edited by Jospehine85 at 11:05 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]

Me - BS
WH - old
Kids
Dday May 2012

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 5:53 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Do it!!!

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 11:55 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 5:57 AM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

Tell.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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 Lovedyoumore (original poster member #35593) posted at 3:03 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013

I think an early warning would have changed both my actions and my FWH actions. If we had both been told who the OW was and what she had previously done, I think there is a good chance our history would be different. Who would not think twice if you were told she is a money, status, husband grabbing whore?

But, if she has new blood, the vampire goes away and leaves us alone. Blowing her cover brings us back into the crosshairs of her attention that we have spent 2 years trying to keep NC to get away from her. Ugh.

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

posts: 3626   ·   registered: May. 15th, 2012   ·   location: Southern, bless your heart
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