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Mack9512 posted 6/14/2013 08:45 AM

I posted earlier about my mood lately. My fwH has been trying to get me to talk about it but I have had a hard time articulating what was going on in my head. Since I write more eloquently than I speak I wrote him an email. Here is his response:
"I love you so much and I knew a lot of what you wrote. This is going to be a hard year for the two of us I know, but I also believe we are different as a couple even in this short amount of time. I feel closer to you now than ever. That's why I know and feel when you're hurting. I want to make it better magically but I know it will take time. Time is what we have a ton of. I am not going anywhere. I know where I belong. We will spend time together as a family and with each other. I love our time together. I look forward to it. I get the vibe sometimes that you feel you can't be in moods because you think I will leave. Nothing could be further from the truth. I am your husband and partner and am here for you to lean on. I hope you feel that. I did have a good time in MA last year, but I wasn't right in the head. I'm sorry for that. I love you. Lean on me please. I'm here....forever.
Love, fhW"

This helped a lot.

RoadtoPeace posted 6/14/2013 12:10 PM

That is lovely Mack. My WH has sent me a number of similar emails in the last month and it helps to see him committed to doing whatever it takes. Now I have to see the actions match the words. Wishing you and your H all the best.

twodoves posted 6/14/2013 12:14 PM

That's a great email

3kids30years posted 6/14/2013 12:48 PM

Oh Mack,

So happy to see he gets it. Bet of luck to both of you.

I so wish mine did. I sent him an email earlier this week. Posted it here. I got Nothing. I may share your fwH's email to show how how it's done. Mine could use the help.

(((Mack9512))

TXBW68 posted 6/14/2013 14:23 PM

Love it!! Happy for all 3 of you!!