Me (BW): 33
Is this like when you buy a new car? You never see it on the roads but once you buy it, it's everywhere. All the little things...why is it necessary universe?!?!? Really?!?!? Going to a baby shower tomorrow. It was painful enough to buy a card and present...does every woman in Target have to be 9 months pregnant? Does every Facebook post have to be ultrasounds?
Besides that, I noticed that the baby's crocs were chewed up. This is the 4th pair of shoes (maybe more) that the inlaws' dogs have chewed. For the love of Christ, have some respect for someone else's stuff and pay attention. Especially if this has happened before. Stop with the fucking, "oh they are just dogs." And you are a human and supposed to be smarter. Remember to take shoes and put them up high. Be the adult for fucks sake.
I wish I had the support of an SO. You know...not from a friend or your parents. The kind of safe feeling only a SO can give. I can't believe I ever thought what he offered me was ok or any form of love. It was love for himself.
WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 17 years
3 daughters: 9, 6, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.