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User Topic: Wimminez!
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Help me shop. I'm bored.

I have two semi-formal events in the next two weeks. I'm recycling two previously worn black desses. So, the shoes must carry the day. One event is in Vegas, so we have some room to be creative. I was thinking gold and strappy, but I'm not very inspired from my boyfriends at Zappos.

Here are our contestants, although nominations are still open:
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I'm kinda leaning toward these who I am calling Gold Leader:

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[This message edited by Rebreather at 2:50 PM, June 14th (Friday)]


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6643 | Registered: Jan 2011
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Um, so before you even fix this I'm going with the shoes that showed up first. Those are GORGEOUS!!!

I think I need a pair for a wedding later this summer!!!


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18292 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Took me a long time and it still isn't right.

Those are tied for first now with the last pair of the black/gold.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6643 | Registered: Jan 2011
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My votes are 1 and 5. Pick 1 if you want fun, 5 for sexy.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3521 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

#5 Hands down!!

I like that really bare look.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24662 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of each, please and thank you.


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"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love #1, but I could never wear them--my ankles would feel like they were choking

The most 'comfortable' ones to me are #4.

They're all beautiful.


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Posts: 20436 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oooh...pretty! I'm with NIK, one if each! I'm sure you can find a reason to wear all of them


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
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Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the first and last ones.

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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad, I had not considered comfort. LOL I can do anything for a few hours. My issue is always my somewhat Hobbit-like feet and how they fit amongst the straps.

I ordered #1 and #5 under the theory one will be returned. *cough*


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2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like shoes #3.


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Two boys: 17 and 14
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d-day 10-02-01

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm looking for some more for you although in love with #1. Be back in a sec.


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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They come in gold.


Not sure how high your willing to go on heel height. I'm willing to wear super high heels but not everyone likes them. Hope I added something.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The last pair intrigues me. Where are they from?

ETA: I'm a 3-3.5 kind of girl. I can't go much higher.

[This message edited by Rebreather at 5:52 PM, June 14th (Friday)]


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Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really liked 1 and 5. Feel free to send me whichever one you'd like to return.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15433 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Laura28
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I LOVE them all.

But looking at shoes like this makes me sad!!!! I can never wear these kinds of heels.

At 6' I would tower over everyone wearing these and I hate have to stoop to talk to people.

But they are SO pretty.

I especially like Unagie's last pair.

Rebreather - I know you'll look stunning in any of them.

Hope you have a lot of fun.


Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2757 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DSW. I just put dress sandals and gold into parameters.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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