Topic: My Bff husband just left her
Member # 22386
| Posted: 6:07 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013|
Posts: 9549 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Member # 31528
| Posted: 6:08 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013|
(((ann & bff)))
Posts: 49986 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 35215
| Posted: 6:37 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013|
I hope the WS and OW rot in hell. May your Bff live her life to the fullest now
BS/FWS (me):43 Madhatter
WS/BS:46 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 15
DDay(s) Too many to count
False R 7/11/14 Same OW2
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."
Posts: 3963 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Member # 36983
| Posted: 6:38 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013|
((((annb))) and to your friend as well.
Me (34): BF, weekly IC through giveanhour.org
Him (34): WF, PTSD Marine, beginning EMDR
Praying my way through each day.
Content (Philippians 4: 11b-13)
Posts: 613 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Pittsburgh, PA
Member # 36134
| Posted: 7:39 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013|
(((((((annb and BFF)))))))
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 34835
| Posted: 8:50 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013|
I'm SO sorry. Does she have anyone there with her? I'd be beside myself. Prayers and hugs to her!!
Posts: 246 | Registered: Feb 2012
Member # 20547
| Posted: 11:01 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013|
This happened to my Bff, right after my FWH and I decided to R. She had just had twins. I was even more devastated, and I hated FWH all over again.
(((annb & Bff)))
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
His OC born 2008/Adopted 2014
My Affair/OC: 2015
Status: trying to pick up the pieces.
Posts: 2579 | Registered: Aug 2008
Member # 36654
| Posted: 11:19 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013|
(((annb and BFF))). I am so sorry for your friend. Please share SI with her and be there for her. She is lucky to have you as you understand her pain and will be able to help her navigate through this hard time.
BS-54 XWH#2-No longer my monkey
M-11yrs LTA-5yrs Divorced 8/15
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
Posts: 8667 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 16024
| Posted: 1:07 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013|
(((annb and bff)))
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 55011 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 38561
| Posted: 1:28 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013|
So sorry to hear. Please connect her with SI and the wonderful people here.
ME - A new person
HER - A waining memory
DDay - 2/22/2013
2-3 month EA/PA
Together for 6 years, ready to start my life . . .
"I can fill the flask up, but can't get past us
I'm in the storm, staying strong, but can't get back
Posts: 177 | Registered: Feb 2013
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