Hi Marley... I'm glad you're feeling confident but I just wanted to very gently say you're just at the beginning of this road. Your DDay was extremely recent, wasn't it?
There are a lot of ups and downs ahead of you. Speaking from personal experience, it's probably wise to leave the bigger and better prospects alone for the moment. You have a lot to untangle and heal from, no matter how "over" you and XWSO are. Again, speaking from experience... ex-asshat and I were over for about six years before we separated. Because of that, I thought I was ready to date. I soooooo wasn't.
The good news is those prospects will be there for you and your awesome self once you're down the road a bit.