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Divorce/Separation :
every time i hear an ice cream truck

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 notsosureanymore (original poster member #18051) posted at 10:37 PM on Saturday, June 15th, 2013

I trigger. The casino didn't bring the rent-a-drunk back once her affair was found out. My WW stayed on a for short time until our R started for us. The OM went on to drive an ice cream wagon. The day she came back to me he drove his wagon to our place, out of my line of sight. But she got a call and told me to stay inside. Little did I know she later confessed, it was a ploy to get me arrested so she could have the apt and kids. At the time I knew he wasn't worth it, here i was a big strong 38 yr heavy bag punching man he was a skinny little 25yr chain smoking gimp. No contest. It was about her anyway. Later I did have thoughts walking out there and chopping him down with my .30-06. But all that is past. I wish I would have made it a requirement that every time we would hear an ice cream truck she should come over and give me a kiss. I feel ripped off. cheated every time I hear an IC truck.

[This message edited by notsosureanymore at 4:38 PM, June 15th (Saturday)]

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Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 11:17 PM on Saturday, June 15th, 2013

amazing how the most innocent things can set us off.

For months, I could not pick up my work blackberry because they used their work blackberrys to communicate. Missed a lot of important calls.

so sorry for your pain.

Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

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Athena1979 ( member #39393) posted at 4:41 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013

An ice cream truck! Don't those companies only hire ex cons who can't get a job anywhere else?

The choices some people make. There are some broken people in this world. So sorry you had to find yourself with one of the rotten apples.

Married 11/11/11
2 kids
D-day 12/27/12
D-day 4/12/13
D-day 6/26/13
You know perfectly that you can only change what you accept....never forget that there are two kinds of pain, the one that hurts and the one that makes you change.

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Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, June 17th, 2013

I'm sorry, Not so Sure.

I have that with some things, like when people talk about Facebook, because the A was plastered all over it for all of the world to see, before I knew about it. It totally ruined a lot of the internet for me.

Another is a song on the radio whose lyrics match some of the words Perv told people about OW, prior to my knowledge of the A. So when the song comes on -90 times a day-it kills me emotionally.

What stinks is how darn long ding dong carts sit still!

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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