...what do you do?
This morning MrWNW asked me a direct question on what had triggered me this morning. I answered. His response was "You have nothing to worry about."
I know I prefer the reassuring version of him over the silent one. So, I don't want to discourage reassurances. However, the very words "You have nothing to worry about" were another trigger. After hearing those words and believing them before, how do you put trust back into them?
I was honest about it, told him at this moment in time is seems unimaginable to me that I'd ever "not worry about it", but that I realize there are recent hurts from last month and that the present pain may just be speaking there.
Now, I really feel like a basket case when even when he does something good it triggers me.