Yesterday I triggered when my H said he'd like to go to a certain vacation spot so he could take his dad fishing there. The last time we were there, he was distant, cold, and texting this chick - the one I busted him asking out shortly after we returned.
He said he was sorry and that we should go and make new, happier memories, and that he's glad I'm with him and feels lucky to have me.
I replied (in a calm voice, not a mean one) that I am glad I stayed too, even though I had every reason to run and all signs pointed to that being the right move. Then I reiterated that I was glad to be with him.
Was it mean of me to say that I had every reason to run? Or am I WAY overthinking this conversation, which my H has probably forgotten about already?