Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.
I believe sometimes they do it on purpose.
They might do it out of fear of failure, looking to create excuses for straying or maybe some of them are just flat out control freaks.
Some men are so controlling that they will finish right before you can because they even want to control that!
Or they claim they're trying to fix their ED problem, but don't take the meds or cut them in half thus ensuring they retain control over their response or lack thereof.
Or they might hurt you a little bit while you're having sex-not enough to make an issue out of it-just enough to make you not want it anymore.
When a woman realizes a man is over controlling and going to such extremes to maintain control, it will destroy her libido, mess with her head and make her absolutely hate him.
Anybody out there KWIM?
I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.