That's going on here too, where I'm counting chips while he takes DD on four hour road trips, restaurants all weekend and new toys come home. We each need clothes and some other necessities and are going without, while he continues to spend...and that's not only his own eating out that's constant, who knows what goes on "over there" for spending...I stopped looking at the credit reports when it became a trigger.
I'm sorry and I hope you win!
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.