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huRtZ413 posted 6/17/2013 16:16 PM

after the year is up here in this state were going to visit our hometown for a while then find a new place to live . somewhere nobody knows our names and we have no history in and we can have a new start and new circle and a new future. im so glad he is willing to move away from here and away from my past back home . he is really excited and positive and sometimes its hard to keep up with him but i want what he wants and his is showing interests in my dreams so im wishing for this time here in this state to pass quickly im ready for a new place and a new start. i know it wont fix everything but its a start.

Undone1 posted 6/17/2013 21:18 PM

A friend of mine, whose husband also had a 2 year affair many years ago, moved after the A was known. It helped her immensely to have a fresh start.

I would love to move away, but alas. At least the OW moved away!

RightTrack posted 6/17/2013 23:42 PM

Good luck with your move! That sounds good to me too.

BeautifulEmpty posted 6/18/2013 00:05 AM

Omg! I LONG for this! As soon as my 15 yo is 18, I'm out of here! I hope to god I can figure out how to pull it all together in the remaining years.
I've been counting the days since my oldest (now 21) was 9 years old.
I am so desperate for this fresh start...with or without my husband. It's happening!
Good luck to you! Congrats!

RidingHealingRd posted 6/18/2013 01:17 AM

6mo post Dday My WH resigned his position (A with MOW coworker), put the house on the market, and we moved 1600 miles away. I swear, it was the best thing we could have done.

So many triggers were immediately removed from my world.

I am so happy for you. It truly is a new start...Good luck!