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Douchebag Update

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 Douchebagfree (original poster member #39267) posted at 12:33 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

The big move is done :)

I was supposed to meet him last Saturday to drop off the keys for the new owners, we ach have a set. I figured why put myself through another emotional roller coaster filled with fake smiles on his part so I showed up half an hour earlier, left the keys on the counter and walked out the door for the last time. I must admit, I was a bit sad to leave that house. It was my first house and had been our home for the past 6 years. I was also relieved though, one less thing tying me to him.

I received an email from him today telling me he had changed his personal email . I made the list along with a few other lucky people

All of our communication has either been through texts or work email so I'm not sure why he decided to "throw me on the list".

Hopefully next time I see him it'll be to sign divorce papers

Sometimes you have to stand alone, just to make sure you still can.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:45 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Onward!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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anewday78 ( member #39357) posted at 12:55 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Congratulations! One big step behind you and only one more to go. If/when he emails/texts you next, you should tell him that you require no further communication from him. Everything that's left can be handled through your respective attorneys.

Now you should go out celebrating with friends and enjoy the single life. Get dressed nice and go out somewhere fabulous for martinis with your girlfriends!

[This message edited by anewday78 at 6:57 PM, June 17th (Monday)]

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movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 4:10 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Woooo hoooo, ass hole. He is a fucking idiot.

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

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Burtajk ( new member #36668) posted at 12:57 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I would change my personal email and not tell him!

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Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

awesome!!! Your strength and grace throughout this whole ordeal has been astounding to witness.

I am so proud of you and rooting for your fabulous new beginning.

Agree about changing your email...what the fuck would he need to contact you about that could not go through lawyers?

Maybe make a special email just for him.

I wonder if DoucheBox@gmail.com is taken? He should get the hint.

Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 2:16 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

I wonder if DoucheBox@gmail.com is taken? He should get the hint.

Oh, my ribs. One for the quotes thread.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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