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User Topic: SI Occupations
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know we are a diverse group here and have always been curious of the different occupations my fellow members have. So if you'd like share what you do, please post away. It doesn't have to be detailed if you don't want.

I'll start.

I worked for a huge insurance company for several years before my entire department was outsourced. I received transmissions from my assigned client base and updated our systems. I also researched transmission issues and set up electronic client files. Now, I'm terminally unemployed.

Now if you managed to stay awake after I typed the word insurance...

Who's next?


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
imagoodwitch
♀ 23375
Member # 23375
Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am a corporate paralegal specializing in patents and trademarks.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5481 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a project manager at a bank and currently in charge of converting data to our new imaging system. I've been in banking 26 years.


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13833 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am a former teacher. Currently, I am a program coordinator for a wonderful non-profit mental health agency and also work part time as a cashier.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38656 | Registered: Sep 2007
lynnm1947
♀ 15300
Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I run a family philanthropic foundation, leaning heavily to funding the arts and conservation.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7399 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
whatdoto
♀ 28555
Member # 28555
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For the past 13 years I've been an Oil & Gas Accounting Supervisor. I'm also an awesome mom! 2nd one is my fave!


"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".

Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

See! I knew we had interesting jobs


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
KeepCalm_CarryOn
♀ 33374
Member # 33374
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I work in philanthropy. I'm the Director of Donor Relations for a medical/science University.


You are not dealing with rational people or situations. Normal thought processes won't work...story of my life.

Me- BW, 30
Him- fWh, 36
Mostly R'd, minus a few scars...bought a house and got a puppy...And baby makes 3! She arrived August 2013


Posts: 2043 | Registered: Sep 2011
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am a registered nurse with 3 jobs.

My FT job is with a Rehab Center/Skilled Nursing Facility. ("Nursing Home") I do MDS assessments, which is an assessment tool devised by the federal government required on all residents/patients in a Medicare or Medicaid certified facility. (True story: MDS stands for Minimum Data Set. The damn thing is 38 pages long and has a manual 4" thick. Only our government could come up with something like that and have the nerve to call it "Minimum" )

I have a part time job doing RN supervisory visits for a non-medical home care company. (We provide non-licensed/non-certified caregivers and companions for in home care). And I also maintain a website devoted to nursing care plans. I enjoy writing care plans, which is extremely unusual and probably indicative of some psychiatric disorder. And I was lucky enough to find people who would pay me to do something they hate and I enjoy. WINNING!


JM is a pressman for USA Today.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2876 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
cryingdaily
♀ 7276
Member # 7276
Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm an IT Manager for a non-profit, human service agency.

Not so exciting.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
Rebreather
♀ 30817
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I run a family philanthropic foundation, leaning heavily to funding the arts and conservation.

Oh, fun!!!!!

I run a statewide, professional association. As such, I'm also the director of government affairs and our head lobbyist. So kind of two hats. Well, three if you count the c(3) we have that I run and raise money for.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6643 | Registered: Jan 2011
TattoodChinaDoll
♀ 34602
Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm a music teacher. Before becoming a SAHM, I taught general music and chorus at a public school (grades 6 - 8). Now I teach at a private studio (if you call one day a week, "work"). I had actually worked there through college and my first year of teaching public school. Then I went back there after DD4 was born. Besides private lessons, I have taught the children classes (birth - 6), directed a choir that sang at Lincoln Center, and group lessons. But now I've only been doing private lessons. I teach voice, piano, guitar, saxophone, and violin. Again, I only teach 1 night a week and I really love doing it so it's really not a job.

[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 1:34 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]


Me (BW): 32
WH: 34 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1731 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Look at all these awesome careers!

I am an intake specialist for a non-profit housing organization.

Got my degree in Health Science, but landed up here. Been here 7 years.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Unagie
♀ 37091
Member # 37091
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was a private client customer service rep for a large retail bank, in line for the next management position. Now I'm back in school and unemployed working to go into medical social work for the elderly.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2798 | Registered: Oct 2012
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Legal work in house for a large nonprofit association.

[This message edited by Amazonia at 3:28 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13858 | Registered: Jul 2011
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Spent the years before DD as an HR Generalist and Benefits Administrator - currently in Recruiting/Talent Acquisition for a really big medical device company.

Hoping to get a job at a local winery someday soon.... no, really.


"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

Posts: 18278 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Newlease
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Member # 7767
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I work for the government, I'm here to help.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7786 | Registered: Aug 2005
AFrayedKnot
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Our kids say "You don't work. You just smoke cigars all day"

I say "How could that possibly pay the bills?"

Broevil says "I ask myself the exact same thing."

I am in sales.


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2668 | Registered: Aug 2012
h0peless
♂ 36697
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm the principal of a small alternative education charter high school. Aside from my title, I'm also the janitor, groundskeeper, counselor, social studies teacher, registrar and secretary. It's the best job I've ever had, although I'm thinking about going back to school to be a counseling psychologist once I get my student loan paid down a bit because the counseling part is my favorite thing about the job.

Posts: 1802 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Lucky2HaveMe
♀ 13333
Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Out of college I worked for Kodak for 12 years. Left when my baby was a year old and that morphed into home day care until she started Kindergarten... She is now a Sir in college! Oh the best laid plans


Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 6631 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
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