So I called DCF on Saturday against STBX and MOW for a sick twisted "game" they were playing called "kung fu red ass" where he spanks the kids (including MOW's kid) until their butts are red with MOW sometimes holding their arms down. Apparently he does this after they expose their butts, which of course he does himself all the time, thinking it's "funny." DCF said they would be calling me within 24 to 48 hours, but I still haven't heard anything.. I finally got to pick up the kids tonight after his 3 days of visitation, and one of the first things they tell me is how they watched a really funny movie called "That's My Boy." It's an Adam Sandler and Andy Samberg movie, and it's rated R, and here are the reasons I found online for why it's rated R:
Violence:
- Infrequent non-graphic violence.
- Brief explicit violence.
- Depictions of fighting, beating and electrocution.
- Frequent upsetting or disturbing scenes.
Sexual Content:
- Nudity, depicting breasts and buttocks, in sexual contexts.
- Frequent breasts and buttocks nudity shown in non-sexual contexts.
- Implied sexual activity.
- Four sexually suggestive scenes.
- Embracing and kissing.
- Fondling.
- Sexual language and innuendo.
- Crude content.
- Infrequent crude portrayals of bodily functions (shown in some detail).
Language:
- Approximately 207 instances of coarse language.
- Approximately 42 instances of sexual language.
- Pervasive use of the sexual expletive and variations, sometimes in aggressive or sexual contexts.
- Frequent use of scatological slang.
- Infrequent use of profanity, cursing, ethno-cultural slurs, and vulgar expressions.
- Frequent use of crude and descriptive sexual language.
Drugs and Alcohol:
- Tobacco use (smoking).
- Alcohol abuse.
- Three scenes of drug use involving marijuana and cocaine.
My kids are only 9 and 5!! There is also a rule at his house that they are allowed to say any bad word they want but "fuck." And after dunking all their heads in a toilet in March (because it was "funny" and they "loved it" and "asked him to do it"), I'm getting so anxious waiting for DCF to call. Something has to be done about this guy. And if you ask me, MOW should get supervised visitation of her own kid too since she is always around when this crap happens and even participates and laughs about it. I'm so sick of my children seeing all this nudity and violence and drug use and cursing and being made to think it's "funny." It's so sick and twisted..