- Infrequent non-graphic violence.
- Brief explicit violence.
- Depictions of fighting, beating and electrocution.
- Frequent upsetting or disturbing scenes.
- Nudity, depicting breasts and buttocks, in sexual contexts.
- Frequent breasts and buttocks nudity shown in non-sexual contexts.
- Implied sexual activity.
- Four sexually suggestive scenes.
- Embracing and kissing.
- Sexual language and innuendo.
- Crude content.
- Infrequent crude portrayals of bodily functions (shown in some detail).
- Approximately 207 instances of coarse language.
- Approximately 42 instances of sexual language.
- Pervasive use of the sexual expletive and variations, sometimes in aggressive or sexual contexts.
- Frequent use of scatological slang.
- Infrequent use of profanity, cursing, ethno-cultural slurs, and vulgar expressions.
- Frequent use of crude and descriptive sexual language.
Drugs and Alcohol:
- Tobacco use (smoking).
- Alcohol abuse.
- Three scenes of drug use involving marijuana and cocaine.
My kids are only 9 and 5!! There is also a rule at his house that they are allowed to say any bad word they want but "fuck." And after dunking all their heads in a toilet in March (because it was "funny" and they "loved it" and "asked him to do it"), I'm getting so anxious waiting for DCF to call. Something has to be done about this guy. And if you ask me, MOW should get supervised visitation of her own kid too since she is always around when this crap happens and even participates and laughs about it. I'm so sick of my children seeing all this nudity and violence and drug use and cursing and being made to think it's "funny." It's so sick and twisted..
I truly hope and pray DCF takes this seriously and the kids don't have to be anywhere near him, unsupervised.
(Lately I call him "Sperm Donor", like some of the old tv shows.
I caught something at a relative's of his that I'm struggling with and brought it to Perv's attention when they were going to stay there recently. He replied, "I saw that too!" Well? Does that mean he said anything?
It was his brother peeing with the door open while I was there and DD was there, who is 10!!! The guy tried o say, "Oh, you and she were sleeping". No, I was at the coffee pot and we don't know if DD was sleeping, the door was shut but the bathroom right in the next room!
The problem is the other place that the people let him take DD is a place where there is computer porn, a kid addicted to drugs, teen pregnancy, drinking and smoking, an unsafe yard...I can't stand that these are the choices he's made for their visits and these are the people who will help.
Anyway, I'm truly sorry for your children's hard times and I hope social services will intervene and help you...and I hope it will be soon and they won't have to go there anymore.
You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
You called Saturday, right? Well, if I were you I would have called DFACS back today since today was Tuesday and Monday was 48 hours. I'd call 1st thing in the morning.
I hope something can be done! What a stupid man. He is a waste of oxygen.
[This message edited by debbysbaby at 9:14 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
I am so sorry butterfly, My wh is a NPD ass also but I do know he would not do that type of shit to the kids. Wow! I am in Awe.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"