This Topic is Archived
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 3:56 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
This is so tough. I'm getting a lot done...doing some stuff for me...actually being social and enjoying it.
But my god, do I miss that child. Talked to him tonight and he told me all about a circus he went to. Then he says when he gets home he needs a hug and kiss and noses. (We do this every night before bedtime.) I tell him if he closes his eyes he can see me give him a great big hug, big old smooch on the forehead, and rubbing noses.
Sunday night cannot get here soon enough. I hate this.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
scotslass ( member #39204) posted at 4:01 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Sending you hugs tonight.
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 4:01 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Aww, we do noses too 
Big hugs Tesla. I'm sure sweet little Teslet will be back before you know it..
fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 4:17 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I used to do noses with my children when they were small, too. Now after hugging them and kissing their cheek we rub cheeks. Have done that almost forever. Have I mentioned they are now 19 and 21? :)
Nothing feels sweeter than rubbing your cheek against your child's. Just thinking about it makes me smile.
I'm glad to hear you're being social and getting lots done. Teslet will be home before you know it and you can overdose on Teslet time.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:57 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
((((tesla)))) One day closer, honey. Hang in there.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 6:46 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Aw man, it's only Tuesday... but tomorrow will be Wednesday.
Loooong week for you babe.
(((Tesla)))
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:55 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 7:39 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 9:04 AM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Oh man, a whole week without Teslet...poor momma bear. Its too long.
Big hugs to you lady. I am glad you are making good use of your time. Try, if you can, to keep busy so the time passes quicker.
((((((((tesla and teslet))))))))
Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty
courageous ( member #34477) posted at 12:21 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I'm sorry. I know it's rough. Friday is almost here just hang in there and it will be here before you know it.
((Tesla))
Me: BW (in my 40's) Him: ExWH EA/PA with MOW coworker(also married). He ended up marrying his mistress.
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 1:06 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Awww Tesla.
DD#1 and I do noses too since she's decided she doesn't like kisses.
Hang in there. A week is a long time and you will be so excited to see him on Sunday and he will be so excited to see you too.
Keep posting. Keep busy.
Your house will look fantastic by Sunday.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 1:27 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
It is tough, hang in there!
I miss them everyday I am not with them and I realized what I really miss is that we don't get to have many of the experiences together that should have been ours to experience.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:35 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 2:26 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Bebba1171 ( member #33857) posted at 4:34 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((Tesla)))
On business in SoCal now. I miss my corgis. I like to rub noses with them!
Totally understand.
Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 4:40 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
My son and I used to do noses too and snuggle a lot. I miss those days. He's 16 now and at almost 6ft, he's a bit too big for such things now.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 5:24 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((tesla))). I'm sorry this is hard for you. It sounds like teslet is thinking of you, too, even in all the excitement of his trip. He needs and misses your grounding.
My kiddos and I did noses, too - decades ago. (Ugh! Has so much time gone by?).
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 5:29 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((tesla)))
I still love Eskimo kisses.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 1:21 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
A little more than halfway to Teslet time.... Hang in there...
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 2:56 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
Hang in there. You're halfway there!
(((tesla)))
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
This Topic is Archived
