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painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 2:58 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:05 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 3:07 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((ppga)))
I know how hard that must have been.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:10 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 3:15 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
((((PPGA))))
I know you said you're a basket case..but I think what you did showed tremendous strength,courage,and love.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 3:17 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((PPGA)))
I understand. You know it's the right thing, right? You will get thru somehow. I'm so sorry.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 3:26 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
So sorry to hear this.
((((ppga))))
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 3:28 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((ppga)))
I am sorry. We had to do the same thing to our son back in February. He is 24.
My head knows it's right, my heart struggles.
There are times I want to smack him in the head and other times I want to hold him close and keep him safe.
We have no control over them and all we can do is hope they find their ways.
I know it's hard and it hurts.
I am hoping for you, and all of us it truly gets better one day.
((((hugs))))
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:29 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((((ppga))))
I agree with Confused615...it was a very brave thing you did. Slow and steady...it will be ok.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 3:30 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:59 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((ppga)))
You are so strong. Hang in there.
And when you aren't strong? Come here and let us remind you.
(((big big hugs)))
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
painpaingoaway (original poster member #27196) posted at 4:30 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Thank you all for your support. It means so much to me.
Now my fear is that he will make another suicide attempt.
Yesterday was beyond horrible.
Plus H was a basket case, and I had to keep him calmed down in addition to dealing with DS and my own anguish.
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 5:15 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I don't really know the specifics but I wanted to share this with you.
When I was 24 I called my mom from jail for bail money for the umpteenth time. She told me to "Rot There!!!" And hung up the phone.
That was the most loving thing she ever did for me. The growth didn't start right away but it was the spark that eventually ignited the fire to change.
You are in my prayers.
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
his#1 ( member #3432) posted at 5:17 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((ppga)))
I am so sorry. I know how you feel and I wish with all of my heart I could help. 
**The soul would have no rainbow
Had the eyes no tears.~J.Cheney
**Oh, my friend, it's not what they take away from you that counts. It's what you do with what you have left. ~Hubert Humphrey
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:19 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
((((ppga))))
I'm so sorry, but you know you are doing the right thing. I wish it didn't have to all be so hard though.
((((ppga))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 5:59 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
(((Ppga)))
Sometimes the right thing to do is the toughest thing to do.
Sending lots of hugs.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
click4it ( member #209) posted at 6:26 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:35 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:37 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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