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Sad in AZ
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Content  Posted: 12:23 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Granny Sazzy!

Yup; DIL is pregnant. I am happy yet cautiously optimistic given their recent troubles. I wish I could be 'over the moon' happy, but such is life.

I can't wait to be the crazy grandma that introduces my grandchildren to bugs, snakes, birds, hiking--and someday, wine!


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20559 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
click4it
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw congrats! I like the granny nickname too.

My mom refused to be called grandma by both my kids and to this day is only referred to by her first name.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Congrats to you, DS and DIL.

Don't you have some Italian in your ancestry? If so then wine introductions should begin around 5 or 6 don't you think? We have to honor our heritage after all.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3525 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37870 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, gahurts; wine as early as they'll take it

If I have to wait till they're legal, I'll be almost 80


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

Posts: 20559 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, such great news!

Congrats!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21118 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Granny Sazzy! LOVE it. Does that come with a costume? or a rocking cane/hiking stick you can beat the young whipper snappers with if they reach for your wine without permission?


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5947 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YaaaaaaaY

Congrats


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24750 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Threnody
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay, nonna!!

You're going to have that baby taking his/her first steps out on some trail along an East Texas swamp. I plan to be there with my camera and a canteen of wine. You know, as support.


“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

Posts: 14040 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7866 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY! Congrats Sazzy and family!


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3578 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Granny Sazzy.

Grandkids are the reward for not killing your kid when you had the chance.

I love being Grammy... no way to describe it... the kid is a tremendous amount of fun in a pint sized person.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5744 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations to all!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
gma56
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Granny !!! (DS and DIL too !)
I feel similar with my new GS and his parents. They don't have the best relationship but keep working it on it.
I've decided just love on the little guy and be the best Grandma.

Are they going to find out what sex the baby is ?
We were calling him P months before he was born.
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!
Grandkids are the reward for not killing your kid when you had the chance.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, Sazzy (DS & DIL). Grandkids are the best thing. I agree with whoever said that you should have your grandchildren FIRST!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2587 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

Posts: 13881 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7866 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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