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Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 |  Posted: 12:23 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
Granny Sazzy! 
Yup; DIL is pregnant. I am happy yet cautiously optimistic given their recent troubles. I wish I could be 'over the moon' happy, but such is life. 
I can't wait to be the crazy grandma that introduces my grandchildren to bugs, snakes, birds, hiking--and someday, wine! 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25201 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 |  Posted: 12:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Aw congrats! I like the granny nickname too.
My mom refused to be called grandma by both my kids and to this day is only referred to by her first name.
Me: 44
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25683 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
gahurts
♂ 33699
Member # 33699 | | Posted: 12:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Yay! Congrats to you, DS and DIL.
Don't you have some Italian in your ancestry? If so then wine introductions should begin around 5 or 6 don't you think? We have to honor our heritage after all.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3986 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia |
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162 | | Posted: 12:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
FBH - 45
FWW - 46 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 10 & 15
The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Posts: 46240 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 12:44 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Yes, gahurts; wine as early as they'll take it 
If I have to wait till they're legal, I'll be almost 80 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Posts: 25201 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona |
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 12:44 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Oh, such great news!
Congrats!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back |
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622 | | Posted: 12:52 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Granny Sazzy! LOVE it. Does that come with a costume? or a rocking cane/hiking stick you can beat the young whipper snappers with if they reach for your wine without permission?
Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 15 DS 12
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
Posts: 7052 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 12:53 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25944 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
Threnody
♀ 1558
Member # 1558 | | Posted: 12:55 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Yay, nonna!!
You're going to have that baby taking his/her first steps out on some trail along an East Texas swamp. I plan to be there with my camera and a canteen of wine. You know, as support.
“If you don't like my opinion of you, you can always improve.” ~ Ashleigh Brilliant
"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 14329 | Registered: Jun 2003 | From: Middle-of-Diddly, TX |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 1:02 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9121 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 1:12 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 55014 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
Crescita
♀ 32616
Member # 32616 | | Posted: 1:13 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
YAY! Congrats Sazzy and family!
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 1:26 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congrats Granny Sazzy.
Grandkids are the reward for not killing your kid when you had the chance.
I love being Grammy... no way to describe it... the kid is a tremendous amount of fun in a pint sized person.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 | | Posted: 1:29 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations to all!
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 | | Posted: 1:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congrats Granny !!! (DS and DIL too !)
I feel similar with my new GS and his parents. They don't have the best relationship but keep working it on it. 
I've decided just love on the little guy and be the best Grandma.
Are they going to find out what sex the baby is ?
We were calling him P months before he was born.
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20488 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 1:41 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40111 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
thebighurt
♀ 34722
Member # 34722 | | Posted: 2:00 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congrats, Sazzy (DS & DIL). Grandkids are the best thing. I agree with whoever said that you should have your grandchildren FIRST!
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 3722 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side |
lieshurt
♀ 14003
Member # 14003 | | Posted: 2:01 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations!
A wise woman once said "fuck this shit" and she lived happily ever after.
If you want them to quit stabbing you in the back, then you need to quit handing them the knife.
Posts: 16652 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston |
woundedby2
♀ 18522
Member # 18522 | | Posted: 2:18 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congrats!
Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 8010 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal |
hexed
♀ 19258
Member # 19258 | | Posted: 2:19 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 9591 | Registered: Apr 2008 |
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