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Topic: Took another place back

Must Survive
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Posted: 5:34 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013

So today I took my posse (2 adult kids, 1 adult son-in-law, 1 perfect grandbaby, 1 teenage son) to a restaurant to meet up with my sister and her husband that were in town. I chose the place, and it was one that has history for STBXH and me. Now it has different memories. Yeah, 1 more thing I took back.

Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen

Posts: 1063 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive

Pass
♂ 38122
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Posted: 6:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013

Good job, Musty!

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3480 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada

Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134

Posted: 6:43 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013

I am in the process of doing that... Good for you. New memories and traditions fuel new beginnings.

Hugs,

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 6708 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida

Phoenix1
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Member # 38928

Posted: 6:55 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013

I've been doing the exact same thing. I stayed away from places because I had memories with the POS/family being there. I decided to not let that shape my future thinking, so DD16 and I have been purposefully going to some of those same places together specifically to create new, happy memories.

I even bought a new garbage can at home because POS insisted on the previous one, and I wanted to get rid of that memory and create a new one...sad, but true...

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

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Posts: 4657 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference

fallingquickly
♀ 36599
Member # 36599

Posted: 8:06 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013

Congratulations. Every once in a while I realize that something or somewhere that used to hurt no longer does. I celebrate those things.

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

Posts: 468 | Registered: Aug 2012

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