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User Topic: Anyone in fake R, like me?
♀ 38924
Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a douche. I'll just start there. Ef him and his OW. Ef him and spending all our money. Ef him while I paid the bills. Ef him while I worked 12 hour days to to provide medical benefits for kids bc he couldn't! Ef him for sleeping in hung over. Ef him for not loving me. At. all. Ef him for loving himself more than our newborn child. Ef him and crashing our cars. Ef him and his daily lies. Ef him at being an asshole bc he was guilty of cheating. Ef him for robbing me of the 3 years that I can never get back. Ef him for being infatuated with slutty tramps over and over again. FUCK R! ahhhh, I feel a thousand times better just admitting that to myself. Someone helped me get here.

Thanks, Rebreather.

I defenitly don't belong in R. I saw everyone there trying to be strong and work it out. I wanted so bad to be there, too. But, it's not real. I don't want him. I'm over him. He already broke my heart, stepped on it and shattered it to a million pieces. I'm not ready to forgive just yet... I told myself give it a year to decide if REAL R or not. We're both working on IC/MC so we can say we gave it a shot. I'm almost there! I have 4 more months to go. I'm so excited. :)

He's doing everything right, but I just don't want him anymore. I've been doing 180, but it's backfiring, he wants me more. I just don't give a shit about him.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 6:15 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)]

Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.

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♀ 31528
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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♀ 37190
Member # 37190
Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016

Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

Posts: 772 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Out of the ashes
♀ 34262
Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like it was a deal breaker for you and that's okay.


Me: BS 48
Her: FWS 51 (both family med MDs; together 21 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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♀ 37154
Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 4:56 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Dday -9/23/2012

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♀ 38141
Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 6:47 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse

Lawyers involved.

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