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letitout posted 6/19/2013 19:42 PM

I just keep hearing how beautiful LT 23 yo slut #2 was and how stylish she was, such beautiful eyes he's ever seen.javascript:AddSmily(' ') I begged him to let me see her on fb and yes she was all of those things, more javascript:AddSmily(' ')I'm sick. Be careful what you ask for. He said she drank a lot. I told him it was because she had to be with you. Bald, hairy, fat, old 63 yo guy. He didn't think so. Men are such in denial.

letitout posted 6/19/2013 19:43 PM

sorry guys, I don't know how to put up those cute face icons.

Mousse242 posted 6/19/2013 19:55 PM

Who cares what they looked like, they're freaking hookers!

Getting to Happy posted 6/19/2013 19:58 PM

That's okay. We get the picture.

Balding, old, fat guy stupidly thinking that a young,dumb slut really wants to be with him because they are in Lurrvve!

Right.

*sigh* There seems to be no end to this delusional crap fest!

authenticnow posted 6/20/2013 04:56 AM

Letitout,

Please adhere to SI guidelines:

GENERAL STATEMENTS: Please refrain from making statements that generalize gender, WS/OP/BS, race, religion or political alignment. Also do not presume to speak on behalf of other people.

nolight posted 6/20/2013 06:32 AM

??

Anyway, letitout it is hard when you compare yourself to OW but remember that she is broken in all the ways that count. Are you currently in R?

Thiscantbhapning posted 6/20/2013 09:15 AM

it is hard when you compare yourself to OW

You're right. It's very hard. Especially when she is 20 years younger than you. I am 2 years out from D-Day and I still struggle with that.

outtanowhere posted 6/20/2013 10:18 AM

Ok, I'm a total rule follower but, I can't figure out what the mod was referring to. Just for future reference.....

outtanowhere posted 6/20/2013 10:21 AM

I just wanted to add that my stupid WH also thought those 20 something years olds were "lusting" after him as he was them. I was simply floored and asked "do you have a mirror"? Ugh! Was the $$$ you paid them to overlook the obvious? The stupidity is dumbfounding!

[This message edited by outtanowhere at 12:56 PM, June 20th (Thursday)]

Deeply Scared posted 6/20/2013 10:27 AM

outtanowhere...

The Moderator was referring to the "Men are such in denial." as a generalization.

Hope that helps

outtanowhere posted 6/20/2013 10:29 AM

Thanks DS! I would not have picked up on that but maybe because LIO & I think alike!

Deeply Scared posted 6/20/2013 10:30 AM

No problem

Faithful w/Love posted 6/20/2013 11:06 AM

Thanks DS, I was wondering also???

It is not what they look like. It is how he felt of himself. She made him look new and shiney.

RyeBread posted 6/20/2013 11:15 AM

He didn't think so. Men are such in denial.

Yes, HE is in denial.

Just know that most men realize the dynamic you are refering to and steer clear of that. We know what a woman like that is up to. A healthy man can spot it a mile away. I'm sorry your man isn't able to.

He said she drank a lot. I told him it was because she had to be with you. Bald, hairy, fat, old 63 yo guy.

2yrs+recovering posted 6/20/2013 11:41 AM

Sometimes I think if they were better looking it would make sense

My 60+ couldn't get a younger woman unless he paid for it. Yes, I threw that in his face many times. The one he didn't put $$$ out for was a real disaster, not just unattractive but ugly, only 2 yrs younger than me, and a needy nut case!

There is no accounting for who will stoop so low as to allow themselves to be used this way.

On my final DDay, he dumped her like the POS she was and never looked back.

I really think the younger more attractive ones that go with an older man are just plain lazy. Want someone to take care of them. Well let them have them

See how quick they run when half the money is gone and they get the kids every other week and the alimony goes on month after month! Oh and laundry and bills, and Dr. appts, yes lots of Dr. apts with an older man!!!

letitout posted 6/20/2013 13:22 PM

sorry mods about my generalization. I wasn't thinking clearly.

2yrs+recovering posted 6/20/2013 13:41 PM

No need to apologize here!

We need to vent occasionally

Any way, wayward men are all tooooo typical in their actions. It is very sad, the behavior! If he is still telling you how great she is, let him go to her and let the door hit him in the ass. With the help of your foot!!!

2oldforthis posted 6/20/2013 16:17 PM

You can say: My Bald, hairy, fat, old 63 yo guy, who is in denial.

And then I will add mine to your list and so on and so forth.

nofool4u posted 6/20/2013 16:56 PM

I just keep hearing how beautiful LT 23 yo slut #2 was and how stylish she was, such beautiful eyes he's ever seen.

??? Why do you put up with this? Is he professing his appreciation for the beauty of his affair partner after you had already found out????

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