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 brokensunflower (original poster member #38674) posted at 5:25 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

I seen a shirt during grocery shopping that went ...

don't hate me because im beautiful hate me because your man says I am ... like seriously ... messed up my mood

me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12

my give a damn is busted

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BeautifulEmpty ( member #38763) posted at 5:29 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

I have always found things like that intolerable. I don't admire women with that attitude at all.

It's like the stupid 'dontcha wish your girlfriend was hot like me, dontcha wish your girlfriend was a freak like me? Dontcha...'

F that.

I'm sorry it got to you but honestly, I think that's why shirts and songs like that are made. It sucks.

Me: 44 BS
Him: 40 FWS
Ow: 47 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 23, 20, 19, 17, 12
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.

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Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 9:56 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Ughhh, Imagine being fucked up enough to buy and wear that shirt.

someone who wants to transmit that message to the world has 99 problems.

Speaking of songs glorifying infidelity, that crazy clown Nikki Minaj has the one that goes "I know he got a wife at home, but I need just night alone...if you want it you got, you got that boom boom".

I want to rip the radio out of the car every time it comes on.

Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 10:39 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Out of curiousity I looked at a site for OW. They had a thread about regret. Almost none of them expressed regret and not a single one referenced the BS or children. They did talk about loneliness and diminished expectations but expressed how much they learned from this wonderful man....

One said she regretted the first married man because she wasted 8 years on him, but the next one (?) did leave his wife.

Just it's own special brand of messed up!

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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BeautifulEmpty ( member #38763) posted at 5:42 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

One girl my H dated when we were poly was just lonely. She was a single mom. I'm not saying she would have dated a cheating married man in general but it makes me think that one part of OW are just lonely and hurt so they can't see beyond their own needs. Not to feel sorry for them but I can understand not seeing beyond my own needs tat are overwhelming my life.

Another bunch just seem to be party girl man eaters and the rest take great pride in taking anything or one that belongs with someone else. Look how great I must be because I took him away from you!

Some have bought into the lie that you can't help falling in love and if it happens, you must pursue it.

Any one who's been married awhile knows that fidelity and building a worthwhile married life requires hard work and diligence. At least, they should.

Me: 44 BS
Him: 40 FWS
Ow: 47 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 23, 20, 19, 17, 12
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.

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Chandler ( member #23038) posted at 6:16 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

The current OW posted on her fb "now that I have a good man I am not going to let him go" WTF???? I must have missed the memo that said cheating on your wife makes you a good man. I just shake my head where do these people come from? And how do you just lay claim to another woman's husband like that???

ME:BS Him:WS
D-Day: Too many I lost count
OC born Jan 09
"If happy ever did exist, I would still be holding you like this, all those fairy tales are full of shit, one more fucking love song I'll be sick" -Maroon 5

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