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TattoodChinaDoll (original poster member #34602) posted at 5:43 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
I posted a few months ago how I swallowed a piece of bread and it went up my nose. I had to blow bread out of my nose. It sucked. I thought everyone could enjoy a laugh at my expense. So tonight I did something stupid that I thought you all would enjoy.
I was looking for my phone arm band thingie for running. It had been on the foot of the bed and fell underneath. Of course it wasn't anywhere I could just bend and get it, I had to get on the floor. So I'm pulling things out and I find this oval, plastic thing that looks like it has a speaker on one side. It was about 2 inches long. Seriously people...my very first thought was that he had hidden a VAR under the bed so he could record me since we do not sleep together anymore. I thought he wanted to capture me crying or something. And not only did I think that, but I thought he was being extra sneaky because it was so small and so odd looking that he went out of his way to buy spy gear. And do you know what it was? I'm such an idiot. On closer inspection it said Build A Bear on it. The kids had made me a bear and put one of those recorded sayings inside. It says, I love you. SMH.
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
BeautifulEmpty ( member #38763) posted at 5:54 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
Lol omg you sound like me! >.<
Great story!
Me: 44 BS
Him: 40 FWS
Ow: 47 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 23, 20, 19, 17, 12
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.
losingmyground ( member #36070) posted at 7:10 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
You made me smile big time. The kids rescue us at such an unknown time.
Married 13 yrs
3 kids 13, 10 & 1
I'm 34
FWH 37
Affair lasted 6 months
Ended 09/2011
Found out 06/2012
My father died during the affair
In the middle of Reconcilliation
Cookie7088 ( member #30038) posted at 2:11 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
Well...thank goodness you recognized it before "Build a Bear" met "Mr. Hammer." 
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 2:14 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 2:22 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 2:32 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
TattoodChinaDoll (original poster member #34602) posted at 2:41 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
The stitching on the back of the bear had opened awhile ago. And I had squeezed around its body to find the sound box. When I didn't find it, I just assumed it was still in there but hidden in fluff. Well, now I know it fell out. It's a good thing my first reaction wasn't to storm downstairs and throw it at him. That would have made me look really dumb!
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 2:41 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
TattoodChinaDoll (original poster member #34602) posted at 6:39 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
You know how after you've been here awhile you tend to think everything has to do with SI. Like if you see WH, you automatically think wayward husband. Or, for example, I saw a sign on the street that said, "Having an affair?" I had to look again because they meant a party. Well, as soon as I saw Build a Bear the first thing that popped in my mind was that story!
Me: 35
WH: 37 TimeToManUp
Married: 14 years, together 19 years
3 daughters: 12, 8, 6, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
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