OK, so OBVIOUSLY this is going to be a story about swim lessons, I'm sure. Right? But immediately my mind went to, oh God, what if she works with one of the women my husband was talking to last year, or she heard something, or she saw him doing something (SHE HAS NEVER EVEN MET HIM, and she lived in another state last year when all the nonsense was happening!)
So dumb. Really really dumb. For real. It's about SWIM LESSONS I'm sure.
But I hear you. My spouse just came back from a weekend fishing with his old HS buddies. He goes, "get this! We were at the bar and Mike was sitting next to me and he whispered, "Eric is cheating." When my husband told me this I gasped! And almost passed out. And felt that horrible pit in my stomach. And then he continued, "at liars dice. Who cheats on their best friends at liars dice???!!"
Geezus. About killed me.
Every time he doesn't answer his phone at work when I call.
Everytime he GIVES ME a password (that I have forgotten) I imagine that he must have another secret account.
Every time he says "Have a good time" if I go out with my sister, because he must have plans of his own.
All this and more. AND my husband has been totally incapacitated for 6 months with an injury and cannot go anywhere without me driving him.
I don't see how it will ever go away.
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy