Has anyone ever browsed the Don Juan or the Mistress forums. I did out of curiosity and it was all kind of sad really. There are actually men and women on the sites that talk about the downside of cheating and discourage others from doing so.
One of the most compelling site was a mistress who had cheated with an older guy and the pain and loneliness she experienced. Believe me it is not all roses for them. They aren't living exciting invigorated lives.
Of course I wouldn't suggest this type of reading for those who are raw or fresh....and there are those that never learn.However it did give me a new perspective and in many cases affirmed what's said about those that choose to participate.
[This message edited by ifinallyfoundme at 10:38 AM, June 20th (Thursday)]