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ifinallyfoundme posted 6/20/2013 10:37 AM

Has anyone ever browsed the Don Juan or the Mistress forums. I did out of curiosity and it was all kind of sad really. There are actually men and women on the sites that talk about the downside of cheating and discourage others from doing so.

One of the most compelling site was a mistress who had cheated with an older guy and the pain and loneliness she experienced. Believe me it is not all roses for them. They aren't living exciting invigorated lives.

Of course I wouldn't suggest this type of reading for those who are raw or fresh....and there are those that never learn.However it did give me a new perspective and in many cases affirmed what's said about those that choose to participate.

[This message edited by ifinallyfoundme at 10:38 AM, June 20th (Thursday)]

RyeBread posted 6/20/2013 11:08 AM

One of the most compelling site was a mistress who had cheated with an older guy and the pain and loneliness she experienced. Believe me it is not all roses for them. They aren't living exciting invigorated lives.

Of course they aren't. They know deep down inside they are broken people who thrive off of chaos. For the most part we choose what kind of life we want and what makes us happy. Is it any real suprise that people who engage in A's aren't truly happy? Not to me.

If you want positive things to happen to you then start doing positive things. A's are the exact oposite of that.

JanaGreen posted 6/20/2013 11:24 AM

If you want positive things to happen to you then start doing positive things.

You know, that's such a simple statement but so profound.

Vulcanized posted 6/20/2013 12:00 PM

I sought out some OW sites, to get an idea of OW's mental space and all I can say is Fight fire w/fire & all that other clap trap.

It's utterly amazing how utterly delusional alot of these OW are. I've read some things that are just utterly incredulous.

The thing I've noticed in most cases is how much these women demonize the wife, despite all the blather of how they don't.

Interesting window into the world of crazy ...

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