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sodamnlost posted 6/20/2013 11:05 AM

Having WH take a poly tonight at 6:30. Not suspecting anything new, just looking for some reassurance I guess. I know it's not a silver bullet but with years of mind games from him, I am not so sure I trust my brain some days :-(

confused615 posted 6/20/2013 11:22 AM

Good luck.

WH said he would take one..but has made no effort to do so.

I hope you get the reassurance you're looking for.


JustWow posted 6/20/2013 12:14 PM

Good luck, both of you.

We did this. it did help, both of us.

Rebreather posted 6/20/2013 12:50 PM

*fingers crossed* for no parking lot confessons and a good result!

JanaGreen posted 6/20/2013 14:19 PM

((HUGS)) and good luck tonight. I know it's not going to be easy.

sodamnlost posted 6/20/2013 16:49 PM

He feels like crap because he had made choices that have us here, his wife asking for a poly. He is scared it won't help me.

I feel guilty almost. I *KNOW* I shouldn't but I do. I don't think he is still lying (most days) but on those days I do - yeah - the crazy takes over and hopefully this will help. I am *TERRIFIED* that he is still lying to me :-( I sooooo hope the poly gives me some security. I am scared of what I will have to do if he *IS* still lying. My belly is in knots. My head hurts. I want to vomit. My chest has an elephant on it. I want it over and done already.

OptimisticWife posted 6/20/2013 17:22 PM


I hope you feel much better once you have the results. Don't feel guilty. Good on you for looking out for yourself. I think it's good that your WH is doing this in hopes of helping your healing. It's a great step for you both. I wish you both the best. Good luck.

1Faith posted 6/20/2013 17:35 PM

Good luck!! It will hopefully be another reassurance for you so you can move forward. Sending hugs.

sodamnlost posted 6/20/2013 18:51 PM

HE PASSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:-) YAY!!

JustWow posted 6/20/2013 19:49 PM

yay! yay! yay!

Good job, BOTH of you, boundaries and promises are both important to keep - and ya both did your part!

Jrazz posted 6/20/2013 20:09 PM

Yaaaaay!!! I'm so glad. Hopefully this is a huge load off for both of you!!


catlover50 posted 6/20/2013 20:23 PM

Good for you both!!!!!

LivinginLimbo posted 6/20/2013 20:29 PM

I hope this helps you to move on.

Missymomma posted 6/20/2013 20:30 PM

Congratulations! Hope it gives you some peace.

PinkJeepLady posted 6/20/2013 20:35 PM

That's awesome, I bet this is a huge relief for both of you. What a positive step for R!
Thanks for sharing your news! Have a wonderful evening!

SoVerySadNow posted 6/20/2013 21:11 PM

Yay! I love hearing positive things.

HardenMyHeart posted 6/20/2013 21:42 PM

Skan posted 6/20/2013 22:55 PM

I'm so happy for you!

OptimisticWife posted 6/21/2013 07:14 AM

Fantastic!!! All the best to you both

AFrayedKnot posted 6/21/2013 07:25 AM


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