On Tuesday night, WH and I finally spoke for the first time since Dday about a month and a half ago. He had filed a bogus restraining order against me to get me out of the house, so I kept my distance, filed for D and went about my life. The hearing was supposed to be yesterday, but he dropped it because he could have gotten into a lot of trouble (he's a lawyer) for filing a false lawsuit (I have evidence to prove it was a lie).
He had a moment of clarity the night before the hearing and came to my room crying and apologizing for everything. I felt he was sincere, but it didn't change anything for me as far as moving forward with the D.
He also told me that he broke it off with OW that day by email. He said that she was volatile and very mean spirited. He said seeing her meanness opened his eyes to the effect of his own behavior. She even admitted to him that she's broken up 4 marriages before ours.
So last night someone started calling our house non stop (we don't usually answer it). About 15 minutes later, someone started frantically buzzing our security gate buzzer. He told me not to answer it and said she had been blowing up his phone and emails all day.
After about 10 minutes of buzzing, I answered the door buzzer, but she didn't say anything. Our phone started ringing again, so I picked it up and calmly addressed her as Glenn Close and told her never to call again. It stopped for an hour, then started ringing again until he finally unplugged it.
He said she's very volatile, but that she'll move on to someone else right away. He said she was pushing hard to move in to our house and was excited about the hearing before he dropped it.
Does anyone know anything about people who do this kind of behavior? If it's her pattern, will she move on right away?