Me - BW
I guess I should not have expected anything less from him.
It very clearly states in the SA that he is responsible for 50% of the uninsured medical expenses. I think that's a pretty commmon thing. Anyway, I got dd new glasses a couple of weeks ago. She really did need them as her prescription changed and her old frames were barely fitting on her face.
I send him the receipt and said that per the SA, his share was due by July 3. He said he wouldn't pay it, and that I should have just got her $2 readers from Walmart, because that's what he got and they were just fine.
Ok fucktard, glasses are required, adn if you are 47 and want readers from WM then knock yourself out. But an 11 year old needs a proper prescription. And I was NOT out of line in getting them without consulting him. The expense was way less than the $500 point at which I am required to consult with him.
I also sent him the bill for dd's surgery. This was relatively small.
Well, today I got an email stating that he would make a one time payment for the glasses, and to consider myself warned that he would not be making any future payments, and that he would overlook my bad judgement.
AYFKM?? Bully much?? JFC. So similar to the latter Cat got from her ex!!
I had a call with my attorney a week ago and she said that yes, glasses are certainly a legit expense that I am due reimbursement.
Ugh. I'm just going to keep track of my expenses and the dates I submit things to him and let things go from there. Once I hit maybe $1000 I'll have to take him to court again.
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.