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sadsenior (original poster member #25000) posted at 10:20 PM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013
Saw this today and loved it.
Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior.
Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart.
PinkJeepLady ( member #37575) posted at 2:30 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Thanks for sharing that little gem! Forgiveness is interesting isn't it? I like your quote, nicely said.
It's going on my wall of quotes.
Hoping you are enjoying a nice evening, take care!
Me: BW Him: FWH
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas
Reconciled - thought so, but now divorcing
sadsenior (original poster member #25000) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Thank you! You too. Some of the things we come across help us, hope this one does for others. I don't know what I would do without all of you great people!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 4:28 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior.
Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart
Well said.
Forgiveness is truly for us !
I know people that are as bitter and angry as the day they had dday. It's sad because the XS doesn't give a damn so it hurts no one but us,especially so many years later.
ETA: I don't want FT to take another minute of happiness and joy away from me. He did enough.
Gma
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BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
hurtininHouston ( member #39250) posted at 2:49 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
I am looking for good quotes to get me through. I just posted looking for a mantra. Thanks for this.
Thought of the thinker never leave their mind.
Only we can hurt ourselves.
I know this, but I still hurt myself daily..... :(
UMBL ( member #39605) posted at 5:41 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
What a great quote! thank you for posting! I can't even wrap my mind around forgiveness right now, but I know I will need to eventually for me to heal.
BW - UMBL "Unhappily Married But Looking". His most recent Yahoo chat group
WH - SA
Blended Family - 2nd Marriage
DDay #1 - Jan 2009
DDay #2 - June 2013
hurtininHouston ( member #39250) posted at 9:43 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
OMG after last nights fight I need to find out how to forgive soon or I am going to be eaten alive by anger, hate resentment and more. I did great for several weeks. Went on a romantic trip and all. Now 2 weeks later I am dredging up all her past sins. I am so tired of feeling like this. I like it when I don't even think about it........Help. How can I stop thinking about it. I love her, but fuck....I am exhausted.....help
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 10:02 PM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013
Houston....down in "fun and games" there is a quote thread...pages of them...check it out!! I think its at the top the page...
Bufffalo
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