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sadsenior posted 6/20/2013 16:20 PM

Saw this today and loved it.

Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior.

Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart.

PinkJeepLady posted 6/20/2013 20:30 PM

Thanks for sharing that little gem! Forgiveness is interesting isn't it? I like your quote, nicely said.
It's going on my wall of quotes.
Hoping you are enjoying a nice evening, take care!

sadsenior posted 6/20/2013 22:23 PM

Thank you! You too. Some of the things we come across help us, hope this one does for others. I don't know what I would do without all of you great people!

gma56 posted 6/20/2013 22:28 PM

Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior.

Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart

Forgiveness is truly for us !
I know people that are as bitter and angry as the day they had dday. It's sad because the XS doesn't give a damn so it hurts no one but us,especially so many years later.
ETA: I don't want FT to take another minute of happiness and joy away from me. He did enough.
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 10:30 PM, June 20th (Thursday)]

hurtininHouston posted 6/21/2013 08:49 AM

I am looking for good quotes to get me through. I just posted looking for a mantra. Thanks for this.

Thought of the thinker never leave their mind.
Only we can hurt ourselves.
I know this, but I still hurt myself daily..... :(

UMBL posted 6/21/2013 11:41 AM

What a great quote! thank you for posting! I can't even wrap my mind around forgiveness right now, but I know I will need to eventually for me to heal.

hurtininHouston posted 6/23/2013 15:43 PM

OMG after last nights fight I need to find out how to forgive soon or I am going to be eaten alive by anger, hate resentment and more. I did great for several weeks. Went on a romantic trip and all. Now 2 weeks later I am dredging up all her past sins. I am so tired of feeling like this. I like it when I don't even think about it........Help. How can I stop thinking about it. I love her, but fuck....I am exhausted.....help

bufffalo posted 6/23/2013 16:02 PM

Houston....down in "fun and games" there is a quote thread...pages of them...check it out!! I think its at the top the page...

Bufffalo

[This message edited by bufffalo at 7:17 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)]