What is the allure of an A?
I could be an OW tomorrow if the mood hits.
I think about having sex with someone other than WS and then I think it would probably be horrible and I would be wracked with guilt so that's a motivator to not have an RA.
WS is the King of rationalization.
How do you convince yourself that an A is a good idea?
The guilt would kill me.
I hate being in/getting into trouble, I have since I was a kid.
Even though there is no emotional connection with WS, an A, actually committing to an A is just something I think about to pass the time but the logistics and potential fallout stop me in my tracks.
I get flirted with, it's nice to a point, but then I get super creeped out, creeped out to the point that I want to carry a bat around with me
I just don't get it.
Thanks for letting me get that little nugget out of my head.