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User Topic: They're all over the place
♀ 35862
Member # 35862
Shocked  Posted: 5:14 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We both stopped in at the bar with DD after work for a few minutes. No drinking, just chatting.

The bartender, female in short shorts and a skin tight shirt, comes up and tucks her arm under her boobs on the bar, looks only at H and asks if he wants a drink. He passed, but said my wife might like one.

She came back two more times to ask!

Finally, I just asked her if we tipped her, would that keep her from bothering us? She got the hint.

The thing is that each time she only asked H. Just pisses me off!

Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 918 | Registered: Jun 2012
♀ 38089
Member # 38089
Default  Posted: 7:01 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im sorry. I understand. When my WH and I go to restaurants the waitresses basically ignore me. It pisses me off.

BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 598 | Registered: Jan 2013
♀ 39214
Member # 39214
Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i know exactly what you mean !!!
please anyone sees my WH and theyre smiling and ignoring me . sometime i resent that hes attractive and in shape ( DAMN YOU MUSCLES!) i hate that now! i hate that they notice what i noticed ya know! i use to like when women would come to me and say you lucky you your hubby is good looking im like yea ok thanks i know but why the hell are you looking



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
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