We both stopped in at the bar with DD after work for a few minutes. No drinking, just chatting.
The bartender, female in short shorts and a skin tight shirt, comes up and tucks her arm under her boobs on the bar, looks only at H and asks if he wants a drink. He passed, but said my wife might like one.
She came back two more times to ask!
Finally, I just asked her if we tipped her, would that keep her from bothering us? She got the hint.
The thing is that each time she only asked H. Just pisses me off!