Last night, finally I told my BS the lot. No more holding back on the truth and minimising what I had done.
I've been TTing and lying previous to this but finally realised that I can't possibly be the loving, trustworthy person I long to be while ever I wasn't totally open.
It was painful and has hurt her a lot and set us back greatly, I only wish I'd done it months ago.
At the moment, in her eyes, I've gone from being a newly improved, loving husband to the same old one who could lie to her face, but I do feel its been worth it.
I would recommend to anyone, get it all out- the sooner the better!
Also, how to take stop signs off posts? Sorry, bit new to this!
[This message edited by Pa9rw at 7:39 AM, June 21st (Friday)]