Although WH claims his remorse and is behaving the way I always needed him to, short of bringing up the A, I have felt that we were not on the same page about something.
Today, I am thinking that the "something" may be that although I am still grieving the death of our "old" marriage, he has and is not.
He is all for looking forward to the future and making the most of the present. That is great but I feel that maybe I want him to grieve with me. Not that I want to dwell on that, but I need somehow to believe that he feels a sense of loss also.
Otherwise, it is like he enjoyed his affair, now lets enjoy us. No point in looking back, enjoy today.
Perhaps this is what is making me feel stuck. Does anyone else feel this way? Or maybe give some advice?
[This message edited by FightingBack at 10:27 AM, June 21st (Friday)]