My experience is so different, and he's on his third chance. Most who know say, "things happen, people make mistakes, you have a nice house, you've been together so long, all long term marriages have issues, he loves you, you have to forgive, just move on, we'll now you're even" and on and on.
It makes me crazy...,
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's
“Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.”
