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DragnHeart posted 6/21/2013 12:36 PM

For a while anyways...wh and I got our phones going again. Mil and FIL are still blocked.

We have mil iPhone without sim card and still don't have FIL phone. We just got copies of the bills for the past three months which wh took to hand to his mother today. I doubt anything will come of that but worth a try I guess.

It's almost weird having Internet back. I have kept busy and honestly haven't been going through any Internet withdrawals

It's nice that I can make calls now without having to go to my parents. Dd has had us worried lately. She's better now but doc said to take her to the hospital if we didn't see any improvement (specialist on vacation).

One of wh reps told him that his daughter (with the same genetic condition as dd) passed away. She was five and a half. It was an unexpected heart problem. So both of our kids are going in for checkups. Genetics hinted that both might have RSS so we want to make sure their hearts are ok. Dd had a heart ultrasound a few years ago because they suspected a murmur. It was fine. Hopefully both kids pass their checkups :)

I hope everyone is doing well. I have missed all of you

jo2love posted 6/21/2013 12:41 PM

*waving hi*

Good to hear from you, Dragn. I'm glad you are getting the kiddos in for checkups. Please let us know how it goes.

jrc1963 posted 6/21/2013 12:46 PM

Hi!!

ThoughtIKnewYa posted 6/21/2013 23:37 PM

Hi!

You're doing it!!! It's not easy separating from the FOO, but it is the RIGHT thing!

Mojo for the checkups!

DragnHeart posted 6/23/2013 09:31 AM

You're doing it!!! It's not easy separating from the FOO, but it is the RIGHT thing!

Ya. It's nice separating from that craziness. At the same time even being away from them they are still causing so much trouble. I know we'll have to take the financial hit for their phones and what they owe. That's a given. I just want the other phone and Sim card back so we can at least try to sell them or transfer them off our plan.

The kids checkups won't be for a while. Takes forever to get into this doc AND I lost DS's birth certificate so in order to renew his health card I need that ugh! One more week of school and dd is done so I won't have to worry about making an appointment during the day :)

Amazonia posted 6/23/2013 14:37 PM

:waves:

Glad you're doing well, and hope that the phone thing gets sorted seriously soon! Did you end up hiring an attorney to deal with it?

DragnHeart posted 6/23/2013 14:46 PM

:Waves back

Did you end up hiring an attorney to deal with it?

No we didn't "hire" them. They said for the amount owed to us their fees would exceed that and thus wasn't worth actually hiring them. They gave me a few suggestions and offered, for a small fee, to do some paperwork for us. Wh doesn't want to do that however...

He just gave mil the bills so hopefully tomorrow, or this week, they will fork over what they owe plus the phones. If we keep getting excuses or crickets I'll move ahead with what the lawyer told me to do despite wh not wanting to. This has been a source of great stress between us. I got angry and told him he should have just manned up and taken the phones when they kicked us out. I think part of him still hopes for some sort of R between them while another part is trying to avoid dealing with the reality that they no longer want to be a part of his life.

My parents and I had a falling out, mainly my father and I, years ago. It took a few months but we began working on us and our relationship. I called him out on his drinking. E has since toned it down a lot. So part of me feels for wh while another part is so damn angry at the in laws that if we never spoke to them again I wouldn't feel any loss. They are broken and toxic and my kids and myself and my wh deserve better than that.

dreamlife posted 6/23/2013 20:38 PM

Welcome back & huge hugs!