STBXWW moves out tonight or tomorrow morning at the latest. L has all documentation needed to send paperwork to courts for the official 1 year waiting period to begin with todays date on it. In-house S is almost over! All this said I am pissed and anxious right now. She isn't fucking gone yet...she has been packing all week and I can't see any noticeable difference. I am pretty sure it's a perception thing but damn it's not moving fast enough. I know it's the eagerness to get her out of the house. I have been waiting months for this day to finally get here and it's taking forever.
I am going out tonight after work to avoid being in the house. When I get back if she hasn't packed all her shit up I am starting to box shit up and leave it on the front lawn. Okay in the garage but still how hard is it to box your shit up and leave. This is what she wanted so get a move on. if it was me leaving my shit would have been packed in about 2 hours. She isn't packing up the entire house, all she is taking is her clothes, pictures, some of the kids things, and books. I could have boxed all her shit up in 2 hours. Yes it wouldn't have been neatly packed but it would have been packed up. She can tell I am pissed but I refuse to make a scene. She asked me what was wrong I just said nothing, 180 and NC still in effect.
I know this to will pass. The same thing happened leading up to going to the lawyer to file. I just want it over with. I am a big ball of nervous energy but now I am ready to move on with my life and she is holding me up.
I want my damn house back to do with as I please. Those shitty curtains get taking down. The crappy furniture she bought gets tossed. I can redo the flooring, paint the interior whatever color I want. I can finally buy a new TV because she won't be using it. Yes that one was petty on my part but why buy it and risk her taking it with her. (Sorry dog lovers) Goodbye to that little crappy dog that keep shitting all over my house because STBX was to damn lazy to train it. Baby gates eventually kept the poo to 1 room. Goodbye to passive aggressive bullshit. Goodbye to the TV being on at night because she can't sleep without the tv on. Yes I could hear it from the other room. Hello to not answering the phone when she calls. Hello to, "oh some shit happened and you thought you could call to ask for my help or opinion, F that do it your damn self." Hello to finally not having to walk around the house wondering why every fucking lamp is on in the house like the boogeyman is real. Hello to my kids having normal bed times when they are with me. Hello to heatlhy diet for my kids when they are with me. Goodbye to self sabotaging STBX and her woah is me attitude. Goodbye crazy train...this was not the hippest trip in town and Don Cornelius was not amused.
I am not crazy, I am not losing it. I just needed to vent or I was going to explode. I will keep repeating it's almost over, inhouse-S is almost over, it's almost over, just a few more hours!