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I'm doing OK, I think OW is suffering more than I am
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Chefj9 posted 6/21/2013 16:00 PM
and I'm OK with that.
Lord, she's still pining away and posting music in the hopes that he'll break down and go to her FB page. She talks everyday about how she just can't believe how it wasn't real and how sad she is. That she'll never love another or trust anyone ever again.... 
I'm having OK days, can smile again... laugh and I don't think of it 24/7. MC is going well, and fWH is making changes that I thought I'd never see. I have hope that as he stays the course to recovery that we have a future that is going to be even better than our past. I still have pain, and it's not all roses, but she's really wallowing in self pity and longing.
DeadMumWalking posted 6/21/2013 16:02 PM
((((Chefj9))))
Good for her, she's a stupid POS.
I'm glad you are on an upswing, and that fWH is on board as well.
Sending R mojo your way!! 
((((Chefj9))))
Holly-Isis posted 6/21/2013 16:48 PM
I know they say don't look at the OWs page. NC= no new hurts.
But boy- a small part of me is jealous. schadenfreude - I would have liked to see some misery in either xOw!
I'm glad you're getting stronger from this.
Chefj9 posted 6/21/2013 16:53 PM
She can't hurt me, I have taken that control back. She irritates me and makes me mad. I look at her FB page hoping to see she's moving on. Nope, she's stuck big time. She can't see anything going on with us.... Except I did let one picture "slip" public that was my WH's new tattoo. One that was clear that it was for me (a double infinity). He only has 2, this new one and my name :-)
She started posted songs about "waiting for as long as it takes". Pathetic
DeadMumWalking posted 6/21/2013 16:57 PM
She started posted songs about "waiting for as long as it takes". Pathetic
and
LivinginLimbo posted 6/21/2013 17:54 PM
I do love the self-inflicted pity parties. 
pewpewpew posted 6/21/2013 18:18 PM
Ugh. She's a sad POS.
anyone that "thinks" they can be in love with someone - when that someone loves someone else - baffles the shit outta me.
Really?!
Find someone SINGLE. These AP disgust me.
Chefj9 posted 6/21/2013 18:38 PM
She actually said to me "I never thought in couldn't trust him". I was like UH He's married and cheating!! Does that sound trust worthy to you?