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User Topic: I am officially divorced!
tryingagain74
♀ 33698
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).

I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!

One more round for good measure:


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3641 | Registered: Oct 2011
million pieces
♀ 27539
Member # 27539
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 12
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1278 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2659 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
stronggirl72
♀ 37293
Member # 37293
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 155 | Registered: Oct 2012
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15433 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
bbee
♀ 17840
Member # 17840
Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-hoo!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4734 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26152 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing you a wonderful NB!!

Posts: 36438 | Registered: Mar 2011
Sweetness8
♀ 25674
Member # 25674
Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.


BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.

Posts: 80 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Zoo of the New
Coraline
♀ 36434
Member # 36434
Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
scotslass
♀ 39204
Member # 39204
Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!
Enjoy


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
fraeuken
♀ 30742
Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
TrustGone
♀ 36654
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17690 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Bluebird26
♀ 36445
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I cannot wait for that feeling.

I too will party like its the first half of 2002.

A toast to you!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5656 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
solus sto
♀ 30989
Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 9019 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


The first taste of freedom !

Congrats !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Pippy
♀ 16482
Member # 16482
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, June 22nd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


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