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Divorce/Separation :
I am officially divorced!

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 tryingagain74 (original poster member #33698) posted at 10:46 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).

I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!

One more round for good measure:

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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million pieces ( member #27539) posted at 10:52 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Congratulations!!!

Me - 52 D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later, Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

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ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 11:00 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!

Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now

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stronggirl72 ( member #37293) posted at 11:01 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!

"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!

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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 11:02 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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bbee ( member #17840) posted at 11:15 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 11:20 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Woo-hoo!!!

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:22 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Yay!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:53 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Wishing you a wonderful NB!!

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Sweetness8 ( member #25674) posted at 1:13 AM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.

BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.

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Coraline ( member #36434) posted at 1:25 AM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congratulations!

Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

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scotslass ( member #39204) posted at 4:11 AM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!

Enjoy

Me. - moving on and upward !!!

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fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 5:57 AM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 6:20 AM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

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FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:30 AM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congratulations!!!

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 12:24 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:56 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

I cannot wait for that feeling.

I too will party like its the first half of 2002.

A toast to you!

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 7:53 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congratulations!

BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:31 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

The first taste of freedom !

Congrats !

Gma

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 12:29 AM on Sunday, June 23rd, 2013

Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.


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