I was paying for EVERYTHING this past year while POS was unemployed. When he walked out I not only cut him off, but I stopped paying all bills in his name. He was royally butt hurt and thought I was screwing him over. Um, no, I just stopped the gravy train when you left after being caught with OW#3, asshole! But because he is unemployed, he is getting screwed over, but it is not my problem as I was fired from being his "helpmate" in life. He is a big boy and will just have to figure it out on his own.
Rant on! The way these assholes skew reality to support their way of thinking is absolutely mind blowing!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet
It is amazing how "good" those masks they wore were in the beginning and how brilliant they are at distracting people from the cracks and eventually the large missing chunks of those masks they wear.
It's so hard to accept that people like them actually walk around pretending to be normal when really they are missing a huge part of what makes a human a human.
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC
"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"
It was so shocking to me how someone who allegedly loved me so much could turn on me like that.
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
