If it bothers you (and it would me), you could block her.
Or post loving and glowing things about your husband and your marriage.
In the end who cares. She isn't worth caring over.
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
[This message edited by Chefj9 at 7:01 PM, June 21st, 2013 (Friday)]
I'm in the BLOCK HER camp. Don't give her a window into your life---or any additional entre into your thoughts. (I know it's hard to banish her, but every little thing you can do to help rid yourself of her influence is important, IMO.)
Of course, this was when we were 'together again' and he was telling me he wasn't sure he made the right decision by coming back to me, so I KNEW that he was telling her the same thing and that he was thinking about leaving. So I took the ONLY kind of revenge I had, by posting those pictures on mine and his walls. I later read messages from her on his phone that she was upset to see us so close in those pics.
[This message edited by Tired05 at 7:46 PM, June 21st (Friday)]
I have blocked OW, her son, her daughter and WH's brother, sister in law, and cousin (all 3 have OW as a friend on FB)
I am sure she looked at my FB before I knew about her, but I dont care, I check out her FB once in a while (through a "fake" account I set up years ago to play games - cityville and farmville, sending stuff to achieve goals)
OW still has pic of WH and her son as her cover photo, despite being told by me twice, told off BIG TIME by DD, through FB and on the phone and WH even told her to remove it
Still it remains, stupid pathetic OW, so proud to show off a pic of a man who has been lying and cheating for the entire time
In those 7 days, how many times did OW look at my profile? almost 50. In 7 days. And my profile was private (the code for the tracker was imbedded in the "headline"). 7 times a day OW looked at a white screen with my name and picture.
My Affair: 2015
Status: trying to pick up the pieces.
As soon as you type "RA" into the search she pops up. That is because YOU look at her. You can't know who is looking at your page.
Correct, you cannot tell who is looking at your FB page. It is one of the few privacy "regs" (their own)they have kept to.
I knew ow was checking my fbk out and I.posted " thanks babe for a wonderful night, can't wait for you to get home ". I left it for 24 hrs then blocked the bitch