WH and I got into a fight. Basically ended up trying to talk. I admitted to be my specific deficiencies in the marriage. I know where I have done wrong. The ones I know are:
Child centered marriage
Lack of sexual relations
Lack of confidence in myself for school/job
There were a couple more but I can't remember. I am crying.
When I asked if he had done everything he should have done as a husband and father the past almost 11 years, he said yes. Then modified it to he hasn't been the best husband or father. When I said what, basically asking for generalities like I listed, I got crickets.
I exposed myself. Admitted my faults, I am raw. He could not or would not do the same for me. I feel so hopeless.